Thursday, May 22, 2014

Malaysia's Dawn Raid On London

On the 7th of September 1981, the London stock exchange was taken by surprise when hugely successful British-owned Guthrie plantation company was taken over by the Malaysian government. What came as a bolt from the blue was the fact that the company fell into the hands of the Malaysian government just within four hours under the leadership of then Prime Minister Dr . Mahathir Muhammad who had only assumed the post for a couple of months.



The issue of Guthrie being British-owned even after independence stemmed following the company's continuous rejections of the Malaysian government's efforts in replanting rubber trees to help small time Malay farmers and cooperating with workers unions that the British considered troublesome.  British companies in general kept delaying meeting with the Malaysian government representatives in their effort to work together to find a resolution for this matter. 

However, following the pressure imposed on them by the Central Bank of Malaysia, the people at Guthrie finally set up Guthrie-Ropel,  a subsidiary of Guthrie which owned about 17% of the total land area in Malaysia that was owned by Guthrie. This allowed locals to acquire a small piece of land owned by Guthrie through the Kuala Lumpur Stock Exchange. However, it was later discovered that most of the land that belonged to Guthrie - Ropel was unsuitable for agriculture and they were mostly located on the hills of Malaysia.

When Mahathir came into office in 1981, he was seen as being rather different from his three predecessors. For starters, he does not smoke, nor does he enjoy playing golf, a sport considered posh by most Malaysians. He is also not of blue blood, nor did he attend a British university. Apart from that, he does not have many British friends, and based on the articles he wrote in the papers, is not really pro-British. This would later prove to be true to a certain extent with his Buy British Last and Look East policies. He was also temporarily banned from his party following alleged seditious remarks on the May 13th Tragedy, but was readmitted three years later. 

Before the famous, or infamous depending on how you see it, Dawn Raid on London, the British government not only stopped subsidizing the education of Malaysian students in the United Kingdom, they also increased the tuition fees for foreign students. This new ruling was only limited to students from certain countries like Malaysia, while foreign students from other European countries were not effected.

This move was a big blow to the nearly 17,000 Malaysian students studying in the UK who were now burdened with the increased tuition fees which in some cases were threefold the original price. Many Malaysians, maybe Dr. Mahathir included, saw this as being unfair since Malaysia had one of the largest number of foreign students studying in the UK at that time. Malaysia also could not afford to educate these students at the time since there were only two universities operating in the country back then. Dr. Mahathir, who was then the Minister of Commerce during this change warned that increasing the fees for Malaysian students would harm Britain in the long run . However, his warning went unheard.

Soon, things got from bad to worse when the UK refused Malaysia's proposal for additional landing rights for the national carrier, Malaysia Airlines at Heathrow. However, at around the same time, a British supersonic Concorde aircraft invaded Malaysia's international airspace in Subang on its way to Singapore.

Dr. Mahathir was not the only Malaysian public figure who was deeply offended by the British's recent actions. His brother-in-law and governor of the Central Bank at the time, Datuk Ismail Ali also shared his views. He was behind the pressuring of Guthrie to set up Guthrie-Ropel. Upon assuming the position of governor of the Central Bank, Datuk Ismail displayed an unfriendly attitude towards the British. Mark Gent, the chairman of Guthrie back then said he and the director of Guthrie, Eric Griffith- Jones were made to wait outside his office for nearly half an hour before every meeting they had.

When Datuk Ismail became the governor, the nation's money which was deposited in British banks such as HSBC and Chartered were transferred to local banks. Foreign banks, in particular British banks, were also no longer given the opportunity to open up branches in Malaysia. Most of Guthrie's assests where sold to MPH, a company co-owned by wealthy Chinese tycoons in Malaysia in 1981. This decision, similar to most made by Guthrie, was not done by consulting the Malaysian government while in fact, PNB, a government agency owned 25 % of Guthrie's shares. The majority poor Malays had no chance for equal opportunity in this area.

For these reasons, Dr. Mahathir and Ismail decided that Guthrie must be taken over as soon as possible .

A year before becoming Prime Minister, Dr. Mahathir and Tengku Razaleigh Hamzah, who were Minister of Trade  and the Finance Minister respectively were informed by Datuk Ismail Ali that he planed to take the British by surprise with the acquisition of one of their largest companies.

Four months before the Dawn Raid, the Malaysian government agency led by an investment manager named Khalid Ibrahim was given the special task to examine and develop strategies to ensure everything ran smoothly during the Raid.

Khalid, who had worked at Barings London, the firm which was one of a Guthrie's financial advisers, along with Malaysian investment experts and advisers from the merchant bank NM Rothschild & Sons Ltd. were asked to study whether Guthrie can be acquired. If it was possible, they were directed to formulate detailed strategies on how it could be done .

From their intensive study, the team discovered a flaw in the London Stock Exchange Act that can be exploited. With this vulnerability, an ambush to acquire Guthrie could be carried out. The condition was it had to be carried out as quickly and as covertly as possible, so much so that the British cannot detect it and stop it.

With Dr. Mahatir's consent, a capital acquisition worth 282 million pounds was taken from threedifferent sources - Petronas, Pernas and a new trust scheme offered to the Malaysian natives four months before the attack - the Amanah Saham Nasional (ASN ). To ensure that the British would not realize that the government of another country was behind this acquisition, Khalid was advised by Rothschilds to open a bank account in Switzerland for the payment of the shares.

Of all the British-owned companies owning large properties in Malaysia, Guthrie was targeted because other non-British investors owned shares in Guthrie; investors who were friendly with the folks at the government agency in charge of the Raid. Among the companies were Genting, Bank Simpanan Nasional , the Kuwait Investment Office and OCBC.

With the existing holdings amounting to 25 %, the government agency only needed to acquire another 15 % more for a total stake of 40 % of shares , making it a major shareholder of Guthrie.

For this, Rothschild was appointed to buy shares in Guthrie from large investors on behalf of the government agency, while Rowe & Pittman was appointed as the broker to buy shares in Guthrie from small investors .

The idea here is that most of the shares in Guthrie in Malaysia and London would be purchased simultaneously before the Stock Exchange was even opened, and it must be taken without being noticed by the management of Guthrie themselves.

To ensure the success of this covert raid, only a small group of planners who participated directly in the 'attack' was briefed on its details. It was later revealed that even Mohammad Desa Pachi, the chief executive of the government agency responsible for the Dawn Raid back then was not informed in detail on how the operation would be executed .

The day of the Raid - September 7, 9am London time (4 pm Malaysian time) .

According to the plan, all involved will get the approval of sellers before the the Stock Exchange opens . When it opens, the government agency will announce this groundbreaking news to the world and manage documentation only - as a surprise to Guthrie and other shareholders .

The complication lies in ensuring that the purchase is done covertly. This is because if the Raid is exposed too early, the stock price will soar and Guthrie's  management will respond to derail this ambush.

In Malaysia, Khalid who was given the task of managing purchases locally was optimistic that the Bank Simpanan Nasional, Genting and Kuwait Investment Group will accept the government agency's offer because all three were considered "friendly" to the Malaysian government.

Meanwhile that afternoon, Ismail rushed to Singapore on that day to meet the chairman of OCBC. His plan was to convince OCBC to accept the offer to buy shares in Guthrie owned by the bank at 3:30 pm, and then send a notice of receipt at 3:45 pm.

In London, it is still morning. Rowe & Pittman and Rothschilds were awaiting the green light from Malaysia to buy the shares from investors of Guthrie in the UK.

While in Singapore, Ismail and OCBC chairman Tan Chin Tuan discuss the purchase of shares in Guthrie over lunch. The discussion took a long time and ended with devastating news -  OCBC rejected the Malaysian's offer.

Khalid Ismail phoned in to inform everyone of the bad news. However, since Khalid was already able to buy shares from Kuwait, Bank Simpanan Nasional and Genting , they have no other way but to go on the offensive .

In London, the moment they received the green light, the two firms hired by the Malaysians started the purchasing process as quickly as possible. Rothschild managed to persuade M & G Investment Trust, a British trust company which owned 17 % of Guthrie, to sell 11 % of its shares in Guthrie to the Malaysians.

The brokers at Rowe & Pittman were assigned to buy shares from British small investors bought 5% of shares once owned by the British people.

Even without OCBC, in four hours time, the Malaysian government agency managed to acquire 8 million shares, or 50.41 % of the company without the knowledge or consent of the management of Guthrie .

By late afternoon London time , Guthrie had fallen into the hands of Malaysia .

Guthrie chairman,  Mark Gent only realized that that company was now owned by Malaysia after hearing about it on the news on the radio.

The sudden acquisition of a British-owned company through exploitation of the London Stock Exchange's system by one of their own former colonies was said to have caused great embarrassment to the British government. British Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher only found out about this a few days later. It was only natural that the Thatcher government responded immediately by tightening the rules at the exchange to prevent a recurrence of similar takeover by a foreign power of other major British-owned companies such as Dunlop.

While some brokers in London praised the transaction and even described it as being"cunning ", the British media mostly slammed the attack by calling it a " backdoor nationalization ".

Only a month later, Dr. Mahathir announced the boycott on British goods and services through the 'Buy British Last' campaign. This was Dr. Mahathir's response to the tin corner scandal of which the United Kingdom played a major role in. This scandal caused Malaysia's major export at that time to fall sharply in the world market. As a result, Dr. Mahathir ensured that all government contracts with the British to be frozen.

Dr. Mahathir's actions had a big impact on the British's businesses in Malaysia at the time and in the future. A Dunlop contract which was to supply tires to the government since 1963 was instead given to an American company, causing Dunlop to sell its assets to the Chinese Malaysian company, MPH .

Within three months, all the shares of Guthrie were slowly sold to the Malaysian government agency. At the end of 1981, 100% of Guthrie was fully owned by locals.

Ismail eventually took over the management of Guthrie and transfered its operational headquarters from London to Kuala Lumpur to mark the end of British control over the company. Shortly after the Dawn Raid, Mahathir boycotted the Conference of Commonwealth of Nations led by Britain. According to him , the meeting was another one to meet the white man's interests and not those of his former colonies. 

Dawn Raid had a large impact on many levels in the long run. For one, British firms in Malaysia which were previously said to have paid little attention to what the Malaysian government had to say started to become more open to negotiating new terms. 

Also, not long after the Malaysian takeover of Guthrie, the other three great British plantation companies operating in Malaysia - Highlands & Lowlands,  Barlows and Harrisons & Crosfield (H&C) finally sold their interests in Malaysia to the government agency. As a result, the land owned by Guthrie other former British-owned companies in Malaysia were taken over by Malaysians.

Since companies like H&C had rubber estates, palm oil plantations and other assets not only in Malaysia but in other countries such as India, New Zealand and China, the Malaysian government agency also become the new landlord to former British-owned assets around the world .Khalid would later on say that the profits gained from all these new assets exceed the cost used to finance Dawn Raid. He was quoted as mentioning something like "... we actually got Guthrie for free."

On February of 1982, After five months following the implementation of the 'Buy British Last' campaign, the United Kingdom sent its Foreign Secretary, Lord Carrington along with its Defense Minister, John Notts to Kuala Lumpur to negotiate but it was not fruitful. This forced the British Prime Minister, Margaret Thatcher herself to meet Dr. Mahathir to end the 'Buy British Last' campaign and solve the CHOGM issue. 

Following a meeting that was held in London in 1983 by Mrs. Thatcher, a few resolutions were made. One of it was that the British government would offer several financial aids amounting to 160 million pounds to subsidize Malaysian students furthering their studies in the UK. Also, Malaysia Airlines would be given added landing rights in Heathrow. 

Sunday, May 4, 2014

Convent Schools in Malaysia

The history of government aided Convent Schools in Malaysia began in the middle of the nineteenth century. The arrival of the Infant Jesus Sisters and Canossian Sisters to our shores marked the beginning of these Convent Schools that will go on the produce a legacy of great women who have contributed much to our nation. By the beginning of the last century, almost every major town in the country had at least one Convent School, and these all-girls schools rapidly became an integral part of out nation's education system and culture, excelling in many areas particularly English Language-based ones. However, the number of Convent schools in a region depended on the level of influence the British colonial masters had there, which is why some states like Penang and Perak have many Convent Schools, while others like Kelantan and Terengganu don't have any. There are about 30 secondary Convent schools and 40 primary ones in Malaysia. 

1) Secondary Schools

Kedah

Pulau Pinang

Perak

Selangor

Kuala Lumpur

Melaka

Johor

Sabah


2) Primary Schools


Kedah

  1. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent, Kedah
  2. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent Father Barre

Pulau Pinang
  1. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent 1, Butterworth
  2. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent, Jalan Kulim
  3. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent, Green Lane
  4. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent, Lebuh Light
  5. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent, Pulau Tikus
  6. Sekolah Jenis Kebangsaan (C) Convent Datuk Keramat

Perak
  1. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent, Sitiawan
  2. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent, Ipoh
  3. Sekolah Jenis Kebangsaan (C) Ave Maria Convent
  4. Sekolah Kebangsaan Tarcisian Convent
  5. Sekolah Kebangsaan Marian Convent
  6. Sekolah Jenis Kebangsaan (T) St. Philomena Convent
  7. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent, Teluk Intan
  8. Sekolah Kebangsaan St. Bernadette'S Convent
  9. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent, Taiping
  10. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent Aulong, Taiping - Coeducation school 
  11. Sekolah Jenis Kebangsaan (T) St. Teresa Convent - Coeducation school 

Selangor
  1. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent, Selangor
  2. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent (1) (M)
  3. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent (2) (M)
  4. Sekolah Kebangsaan St Anne's Convent, Selangor

Kuala Lumpur
  1. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent (1) Bukit Nanas (M)
  2. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent (2) Bukit Nanas
  3. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent Sentul 1 (M)
  4. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent Sentul 2 (M)
  5. Sekolah Jenis Kebangsaan (T) St. Joseph's Convent

Negeri Sembilan
  1. Sekolah Jenis Kebangsaan (T) Convent Seremban - Coeducational school

Pahang
  1. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent, Tanah Rata - Coeducation school 

Johor
  1. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent, Batu Pahat
  2. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent, Muar
  3. Sekolah Kebangsaan Infant Jesus Convent
  4. Sekolah Kebangsaan Canossian Convent, Kluang
  5. Sekolah Kebangsaan Canossian Convent, Segamat

Melaka
  1. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent Of The Infant Jesus (1)
  2. Sekolah Kebangsaan Convent Of The Infant Jesus (2)
  3. Sekolah Jenis Kebangsaan (C) Notre Dame Convent
  4. Sekolah Kebangsaan Sacred Heart Convent

Sabah
  1. Sekolah Kebangsaan St. Francis Convent
  2. Sekolah Kebangsaan St. Mary Convent

Monday, April 14, 2014

Husband Material by Malachi Edwin Vethamani

Ravi Mama, my mother's youngest brother, seated across the table, looked intently at me. The last time I met him was four years ago. I have no lack of Mamas. My mother has six younger brothers but he was my special uncle. The last time I had met him was when he visited us to wish me luck as I was about to leave for my university studies in Kuala Lumpur.

My parents were ecstatic when I got a place at the university. So was I. I was finally leaving the close knit Indian community in Buntong. My mother decided to use Ravi Mama as a point of reference for university studies.

'Ravi, you were in UM. Please advice Shanti. She's still a child and doesn't know anything about studying in a university,' my mother intoned.

I was not embarrassed. I was still a child in their eyes. My uncle looked at me mischievously. Taking me by my hand, he said, 'Shanti, come let's go for a drive. I have to pick Uncle Anand up from his flat. We are off to Pulau Tioman for a holiday. We can talk while I drive.'

He had hardly driven five minutes when he stopped at a Kentucky Fried Chicken restaurant. We ordered a drink each. He looked at me and asked, 'So what do you want to know about varsity life?'

I looked at him blank faced. Sensing my discomfort, he started. 'It's a different kind of life, on campus. I really cannot prepare you for it.' I was relieved that there was not going to be a lecture. He could have done this at home, I thought. Then he started. And that was when I wished the earth would open and swallow me up.

'Shanti, like I said, it is a different world. Study hard but do have a good time. This is your only chance to be away from home. Remember, you're responsible for yourself and your studies,' he began.

'Your mother will be preparing for your wedding by the time you graduate. So if you're ever going to find a husband on your own, this is your opportunity,' he said and looked straight into my eyes. I thanked all the gods on our family altar for giving me a dark complexion. Here was my thirty one year old bachelor uncle giving me advice about marriage when he had chosen a single life. My face did not betray my thoughts.

'Do you know about contraception?' he inquired. I nodded. 'I'm not suggesting you have sex but if you decide to, then for your own sake take precautions. Remember, you're the one who gets pregnant, not the Krishna who was lovey dovey with you,' he continued. 'Don't forget you can catch VD or herpes, not forgetting AIDS.' I felt the whole restaurant could hear him.

I started fidgeting. He held my hands gently. 'Shanti, I don't want to embarrass you. You are a big girl. An attractive girl too. There'll be lots of men out there who would want to go out with you. Choose who you want. But remember, you come from Buntong. The Indian community does not take kindly to modern girls. Worse still it has no place for pregnant girls, even if they get an honours Economics degree.'

I thought he had finished but I was wrong. 'I have just a little more to say. Bear with me. You may even thank your Mama one day. If you don't eventually find yourself someone you want to marry while you're at the university, there is little chance you will once you start working. By then your mother will have contacted all the relatives and your photograph will have been placed in the marriage circuit. So try to find a good man, someone who meets your taste. It would be extremely helpful for your case if he's doing a professional degree and comes from the same background as us,' he finally concluded.

I stared at him, my mouth slightly open. He smiled and asked me if I had any questions. I shook my head and wondered what my mother would do if she knew what Ravi Mama had just said. He was honest. He had said everything as a matter of fact. I liked that. I don't think any of my other uncles could have said it quite the same way.

'Thank you Ravi Mama,' I said. And before he could say anything else, I asked why he had not married.

He looked at me and a slight smile broke on his face, then it faded just as quickly. His eyes took on a sad hue and he said, 'I'll tell you if you ask me again, after you graduate. You're not ready for my story yet. Who knows, we could even compare notes.' He smiled again and the sadness disappeared.

We finished our drinks and left for Uncle Anand's flat. We arrived quickly and Ravi Mama ran up to his friend's flat. They returned in a short while, Ravi Mama carrying Uncle Anand's bag. I was promptly sent to the back seat. I did not know it then but that was the last time I was to see Ravi Mama throughout my varsity days.

'Ravi Mama, I'm not sure how much you approve of me. I did try to follow your advice. There was enough information on safe sex to scare me about being promiscuous. Anyway, I did not go to bed with the first available man. I imagined every Indian on campus was somehow related to us or would know some member of the family.

'First year was FUN. I met lots of guys but nothing really happened. It was great going to movies and parties, especially with no curfew hours. It was when I returned to campus after the long vac that I met Indran. We were in the same late evening tutorial group. I had seen him before but he kept very much to himself. It rained heavily one evening and he offered to share his umbrella. It was raining too heavily to walk to the bus stop so I accepted his invitation for teh tarik at the cafeteria.

'We talked about courses and living in PJ. He was from Kuantan and was sharing an apartment with three other guys. I was impressed. I was sharing a house with six girls. The rain eased and we did not have any reason to stay so we left.

'The next time he spoke to me was a fortnight later. We crossed paths almost daily and exchanged smiles. He invited me to a movie. I told him that I was waiting for a friend to confirm about her party. He gave me his telephone number and asked me to let him know. The party was on but I told Indran it wasn't. Now, I can't even remember what movie we saw. This was my first date with him! After the show, we stopped at some hawker stalls and ate Hokien mee and drank Chinese tea. He hailed a taxi and I was at the front door of my house by eleven thirty.

'Indran did not ask me out for a while. It did not bother me as I was busy with my friends. He popped into my life again with an invitation to a play which was being staged on campus by a foreign drama troupe. I accepted and even volunteered to pay for my ticket. He quickly declined my offer.

'We watched five actors playing the various characters in 'Midsummer's Night Dream'. It was very entertaining and we both had a good time. After the play, we walked around the lake on campus. As you know, it is not a big lake. He gently touched my hand and I moved my fingers into his. We strolled, hardly speaking. Lost very much in our own thoughts, about each other.

'We walked down the road and Indran stopped the first taxi that passed. Just before he dropped me off he asked if I would like to have lunch with him the next day. I agreed.

'Well, Ravimama, this was the beginning of the romance of my campus days. Your words remained in my thoughts. Indran was a gentleman and he obviously had money. He just fell short of one of your requirements. He was not doing a professional degree. The family will just have to cope with that.

'We began seeing each other daily and I thought myself forward thinking and went on the Pill. We spent more and more time in his apartment as he did not have a roommate. It was about three months later that we went to bed.

'We were lying on the bed and kissing. He gently broke from our embrace and asked, "Shanti, shall we make love?" It was all so romantic. There wasn't a tinge of illicitness in his request. I didn't want to say no. I didn't say yes too eagerly either.

'You don't look surprised, Ravi Mama. I'm glad. I thought I knew what I was doing. Yes, I was willing to lose my virginity for this man who I had grown to trust and love. I gathered that night that Indran was no virgin. He was gentle and loving. It was pleasurable and I knew I wanted more of this kind of loving.

'You know, Appa and Amma knew I was going out with a guy and Amma threw hints about not giving myself to any man. She even said something about people not buying the cow when they could get the milk free. I invited Indran to Buntong during the long vac but he declined. I did not push him.

'When we returned for the final term, Indran informed me that his parents had found a girl for him and he was to be engaged soon. An anger I never thought myself capable of rose from within me. I screamed, ranted and cried. He sat on his bed and just looked at me.

'I finally quietened down. He continued. "I have no say. My parents dropped two bombshells on me," he said very softly. "My father informed that my future in laws have been paying for all my studies and expenses for the last four years. Marriage to their daughter is the only repayment," he uttered.

'I stood there feeling sorry for myself. He moved towards me and held me close. His heartbeat was racing and I bit into his shoulders. We slumped onto the bed. I must have fallen asleep in his arms that evening. I woke up with a start. The room was dark and Indran was asleep next to me. Lying awake, I moved closer to him and inhaled his scent, wondering how much longer this would go on.

'Morning finally broke, and as I got out of bed, he too awoke. I told him I was going home. He called a taxi for me. I went to my room, packed a bag and returned to Buntong.

'Amma was surprised to see me back mid week. I told her I was free and wanted to spend some time at home. She looked worried but did not ask any questions. Appa knocked on my bedroom door just before dinner and came into the room.

'Shanti, is everything alright?' he asked, seating himself on the chair next to my bed. 'It's not like you to come home without even calling us.'

'I know, Appa, but I'm okay. Nothing to worry.'

'You don't look okay. You can talk to us.'

'There's nothing to say. I just wanted to rest.'

'He dropped the subject and asked me to come downstairs for dinner. Walking behind him into the dining room, I asked Appa where you were. It was only then I found out you were in Sabah. That you and Uncle Anand had set up some small business in Kota Kinabalu.

'Amma was still in the process of getting the food to the dining table. I scooped rice onto the plates and we sat down to eat. Amma and Appa talked about their day while I wondered what Indran was doing.

'On the third day he called. I was glad to hear his voice.

'Hi, Shanti. Why did you run away?' he asked.

'I came home,' I replied.

There was silence for a while. He spoke again, "Please come back. I didn't want to do this to us."

'I wanted to feel sorry for him. But I was the one who was being dumped. I could not feel sorry for him.

"Not yet," I replied and put down the phone.

'Two days later I was back on campus. Indran found me in the cafeteria where we usually had our lunch. He held my hands and asked if I would like to go back to his apartment. I agreed. Once there, he held me in his arms. I did not tell him that I did not want to leave him. We made love and fell asleep. Awoke, made love and fell asleep again. I didn't want to lose him. It was me that he loved.

'Ravimama, I wish I could have left him then. But I couldn't. He told me that he was to be engaged to this girl at the end of the month but he wanted to be with me. I didn't think him selfish, as I wanted him too.

'After the engagement, my weekends were miserable. He was away in Kuantan with his family and fiancee. I returned to my books. I got my Second Class Upper but lost my lover. As term drew to a close, we grew more frenzied in our love. I did not go home. I continued to rent the room in PJ. Told Amma and Appa that I would be getting a job in KL. Indran too kept his room. He was also trying to get a job in KL.

'We were together as often as we could, remaining in KL, using job hunting as our excuse. Just before graduation, I got a job as a reporter for Malaysian Business. I still work there. Indran wasn't so lucky. No, actually, I wasn't so lucky. He didn't get any job offers. But his in laws wanted to have the wedding soon anyway.

'Well, Ravi Mama, I was on the way to becoming an adulteress. I didn't feel like one. I'm not sure how an adulteress feels. Guess, I didn't feel guilty. I assumed that we would continue seeing each other like before though I knew things would change.

'Amma and Appa complained that they hardly saw me, of course. But I used my work as excuse. They surprised me with a new car as my graduation present. It dug into their savings and I was grateful to them. They knew I was still going out with my varsity boy friend. Amma's hints that I should get married grew less and less subtle. One day she called and informed me that there had been a proposal for me.

"Shanti, Malar Aunty called. She said there's a lawyer working in KL who's interested in you." She paused waiting for me to react. When I didn't, she continued. "He's twenty six and a nice boy. He even owns a house."

'I told her I wasn't thinking of marrying. She reminded me that it wasn't going to get easier to find a good catch as I grew older. "There are many Indian girls who are graduates and unmarried," she reminded me. Then she added, "I'm not asking you to agree to marry him. Just agree to go out with him for dinner and see if you like him."

'I told Amma I'd call her if I decided to meet him. I didn't. A few days later, I received a letter from Appa asking me to think about my future and meet the man they thought was good husband material. Appa did ask if I was still going out with the boy I knew during my varsity days.

'Ravi Mama, the boy I knew during my varsity days was getting married and he still wanted me. I accepted the arrangement. A few days before the wedding, I discovered this too would have to be altered. Indran informed me that as he still hadn't found a job, his father in law had suggested that he do his MBA in America; his wife would go with him, of course.

'I didn't go to his wedding. We met in his PJ apartment when he returned from his honeymoon. Sorting out his belongings was his excuse. We had two days together. That was the last time I was to be with him, for now. He left for America six days ago. He called me on Thursday. God, I miss him.

'I rang home yesterday and Amma told me you were in KL. She said you and Uncle Anand were here for some business meeting. Amma said you'd be staying at Plaza Hotel. Thought I'd try my luck and call you. I really wanted to talk to you. Thanks for seeing me.'

Ravimama smiled and drank his beer. I was not sure what his thoughts were. He looked at me and held my hand. 'Mama, I have just gone on about myself. It's been your turn to listen. The last time we met I was the listener. I've not quite finished my story, Ravi Mama. But I want to know something first. You said you'd answer my question, why you didn't marry, after I graduated.'

He looked into my eyes and said, 'I did, in my own way.' Then I understood. I wouldn't have four years ago. He was right. I told him I was happy for him. At that moment, I wished Uncle Anand was there with us.

'You don't have to feel sad for me, Ravi Mama; of course, things are not alright, but when are they?' I tried to sound philosophical. I smiled at him and he returned a loving smile. 'Ravimama, I'm not ecstatic with the way things are. But I'm not going to allow Amma and Appa find me a nice boy. I don't know how things will go between Indran and me. I'm in no hurry to find out. For now, I've a career and I still love Indran. But I may even meet another man. I'll leave my options open,' I managed to say. I was beginning to feel slightly weary of myself.

'I'm suddenly feeling hungry. Let me take you and Uncle Anand for dinner,' I suggested.

'I'm afraid, it's going to be just you and me tonight. Uncle Anand is having dinner with his parents. His mother has found another nice Indian girl she wants to marry him off to,' Ravi Mama said quietly.


*'Husband Material' published in The Literary Page, The New Straits Times. Kuala Lumpur. May, 1996.

Gautham Menon and Women in Sarees

Nobody loves a girl in a saree more than director Gautham Menon. He takes pleasure in portraying his leading ladies as beautifully as possible. The most common way he does this is by having them wear sarees, mostly during their introduction scene. And then, either the hero or the audience will immediately fall in love with them.

Jyothika in Kaaka Kaaka (2003)

Jyothika in Pachaikili Muthucharam (2007) 


Sameera Reddy in Vaaranam Aayiram (2008)


Trisha in Vinnaithaandi Varuvaaya (2010) 

Samantha in Ye Maaya Chesave (2010) 

Samantha in Neethaane En Ponvasantham (2012) 



Sunday, April 6, 2014

Good Ole Advice From How I Met Your Mother


After nine seasons, the popular CBS sitcom, "How I Met Your Mother" (2005 - 2014) has finally come to an end. I have been following the series since I was in Lower Secondary and now I am in my final year of college, so it is a time to be nostalgic. Regardless of whether you liked the finale chosen by the creators Bays and Thomas or not, what is clear is the five friends, Ted, Marshall, Lily, Robin and Barney have shared lots of advice that mean a lot in life.

Some of the advice include:

A) You will know when your soul mate steps into your life:
"When you meet the right person, you know it. You can't stop thinking about them. They are your best friend and your soul mate. You can't wait to spend the rest of your life with them. No one and nothing else can compare." – Ted Mosby

B) About the future:
"Because sometimes even if you know how something's gonna end, that doesn't mean you can't enjoy the ride." – Ted Mosby

C) How long does it take to contact someone just so you don't seem desperate
"The three day rule is a childish, manipulative mind game. But yeah, you wait three days." – Lily Aldrin

D) About the importance of preserving relationships:
"You will be shocked when you discover how easy it is in life to part ways with people forever. That's why when you find someone you want to keep around, you do something about it." - Ted Mosby

E) How much love overcomes perfection:
"Here's the secret, kids. None of us can vow to be perfect. In the end all we can do is promise to love each other with everything we've got. Because love is the best thing we do." - Ted Mosby

F) The importance of friendship:
"Whatever you do in this life, it's not legendary, unless your friends are there to see it." – Barney Stinson.

G) Marriage is about tolerance and understanding, not the competition:
"If you keep lying to me, if you keep cutting me out of decisions, if you keep using words like winning and losing when you talk about our marriage? It's not like it will happen all at once, but if you keep acting this way, little by little, you're gonna lose me." – Lily Aldrin

G) How easy it is to sacrifice for true love:
"Being in a couple is hard. And committing, making sacrifices, it's hard. But if it's the right person, then it's easy. Looking at that girl and knowing she's all you really want out of life? That should be the easiest thing in the world." – Marshall Eriksen

H) When you're good to others people, other people will help you:
"When you believe in people, people come through." – Marshall Eriksen

I) The importance of not letting sadness take over you:
"When I get sad, I stop being sad, and be awesome instead" – Barney Stinson

J) Better to learn from mistakes then never doing anything risky out fear of doing mistakes:
"OK, yes it's a mistake. I know it's a mistake, but there are certain things in life where you know it's a mistake but you don't really know it's a mistake because the only way to really know it's a mistake is to make the mistake and look back and say 'yep, that was a mistake.' So really, the bigger mistake would be to not make the mistake, because then you'd go your whole life not knowing if something is a mistake or not." – Lily Aldrin

K) Life will be so much more beautiful if you let go of the past and just move on:
"Kids, you may think your only choices are to swallow your anger or throw it in someone's face. There's a third option: You can just let it go, and only when you do that is it really gone and you can move forward. And that kids, was the perfect ending to a perfect love story. It just wasn't mine. Mine was still out there, waiting for me..." – Ted Mosby

"We're going to get older whether we like it or not. So the only question is whether we want to get on with our lives or desperately cling to the past." – Ted Mosby

L) Forget all the negativity and focus only on the positives:
"You wrote down all these things to say goodbye to, but so many of them are good things. Why not just say goodbye to the bad things? Say goodbye to all the times you felt lost. To all the times it was a 'no' instead of a 'yes.' To all the scrapes and bruises. To all the heartache. Say goodbye to everything you really want to do for the last time. The good things will always be here waiting for you." – Lily Aldrin

M) Take time to sleep and relax when it is time:
"Nothing good happens after 2am." – Ted Mosby

N) Never be afraid to take risks
"The future is scary. But you can't just run back to the past because it's familiar. Yes, it's tempting. But it's a mistake." - Ted Mosby

"Doesn't being scared let you know that you're on to something important? Yeah, I mean if you're not scared you're not taking chances and if you're not taking chances then what the hell are you doing?" – Ted Mosby

O) Everything happens for a reason:
"Sometimes things have to fall apart to make way for better things." - Ted Mosby

P) Loosing touch with the people that once meant the world to you:
"The friends, neighbours, buddies and partners in crime you love so much when you're young... as the years go by, you just loose touch." - Ted Mosby

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Interesting Trivia About Malaysia Airlines

Malaysia Airlines (MAS) has been in the news a lot recently due to the mysterious disappearance of MH370. As we pray and hope for the safety of all 240 aboard the plane, here are some interesting trivia about the Malaysian award-winning national carrier:

1. MH stands for 'Malaysian Hospitality.'

2. MAS flies about 37,000 passengers aboard 250 departures daily aboard to 80 destinations.

3. MAS' fleet of 88 aircraft includes Boeing 747-400, 777-200ER, 737-800 and 737-400, as well as Airbus A330-300, A330-200 and its flagship A380-800.

4. MAS has been ranked the world's 14th best airline by Skytrax for the year 2013. 

5. Skytrax ranked MAS' cabin crew as being the third best in the world for the year 2013 after Singapore Airlines and Qantas. 

6. MAS is one of the only seven airlines in the world to be awarded the prestigious 5-star status by Skytrax in 2013.

7. MAS received the prestigious accolade of ‘Best Airline Signature Dish’ by Skytrax for its Satay, a traditional Malaysian dish, served in the First and Business Class cabins.

8. MAS cabin staff uniform has been named the second "nicest uniform" by travellers in a poll conducted by Skytrax with 15 per cent of the top 10 airline vote.

9. The iconic Sarong Kebaya worn by MAS' female flight attendants was designed by the School of Fashion at Universiti Teknologi MARA.

10. The name 'Malaysia Airlines System' was chosen because, in abbreviation, MAS (which is short for 'emas') in Malay means gold, and this symbolises high quality .

11. MAS and Singapore Airlines used to be one joined airline called Malaysia–Singapore Airlines (MSA) that resulted from a joint ownership of the airline by the governments of the two neighbouring countries following the seperation of Singapore from the Federation. This airline ceased operations after 6 years of operation in 1972 when both governments decided to set up their own national airlines. Singapore Airlines inherited MSA's Robinson Road headquarters, international routes from Changi Airport, the MSA signature uniform, all of MSA's Boeing 707s and 737s and MSA's chief JY Pillay. MAS only inherited the domestic routes within Malaysia and the few international routes out of the country, along with the remaining fleet of Fokker F27s and Britten-Norman Islanders. As a result, Singapore Airlines expanded overnight while MAS had to mostly start from scratch.

12. MAS changed the previous flight number of MH370 for Kuala Lumpur-Beijing flights to MH318. Its MH371 return flight, would be changed to MH319 and its frequency remains unchanged. This new flight number reflects the Chinese homonyms, with number 8 which sounds like "prosper" or "wealth" and the number 9, which means 'long lasting'.

#prayforMH370

Saturday, December 14, 2013

Places in Malaysia Named After Queen Victoria

Almost everywhere in the world, you will find a street, school, city, mountain, province, bridge, hospital, prison, state, park or any kind of place named after the late Queen Victoria. Some might wonder how is it a place in Africa or Asia is named after a British monarch. Well, the British Empire used to the biggest and strongest empire in the world. It had colonies all across the globe. Queen Victoria was the reigning monarch when the British Empire was at its strongest. This is why she is one of the most commemorated people in place-names in the world.

Since Malaysia was part of the British Empire, and is currently a member of the Commonwealth, there are many places here that are also named after Queen Victoria. The names of these places are retained till today to protect our rich colonial heritage. Here is a list of some of the places named after Queen Victoria:

1) Victoria Institution, Kuala Lumpur


2) Victoria Club, Kuala Lumpur


3) Victoria Bridge, Kuala Kangsar


4) Victoria Fountain, Merdeka Square, Kuala Lumpur


5) Victoria Memorial Fountain, Melaka



6) Victoria Street, George Town



7) Queen Victoria Jubilee Clock Tower, George Town


8) Victoria Green, George Town


9) Queensbay, Penang


10) Victoria, Labuan




11) Victoria Estate


12) Victoria Road, Nibong Tebal